August 12th, 2025
by Oluseye Ashiru
by Oluseye Ashiru
Whether you’re a mom in the U.S. where school is already in full swing, or you’re in Canada (or elsewhere) still preparing for the first day, this season brings a whirlwind of emotions. Excitement, anticipation, and yes—stress.
For many moms, back-to-school season can trigger burnout before September even ends. But here’s the truth: God doesn’t want you to live drained. He wants you to walk in peace, strength, and joy as you lead your family well.
Let’s look at 7 signs of mom burnout—and how to restore your peace whether you’re just starting or already weeks into the school year.
For many moms, back-to-school season can trigger burnout before September even ends. But here’s the truth: God doesn’t want you to live drained. He wants you to walk in peace, strength, and joy as you lead your family well.
Let’s look at 7 signs of mom burnout—and how to restore your peace whether you’re just starting or already weeks into the school year.
1. Constant Exhaustion
•If school has already started: You may feel like you haven’t caught your breath since day one—early mornings, drop-offs, homework, and sports schedules add up quickly.
•If school hasn’t started yet: The prep itself (supplies, clothes, new routines) may already be draining you before the first bell rings.
? Peace Reset: Anchor your mornings in prayer and Scripture before the day unfolds. Ten minutes of stillness with God can set the tone for peace.
•If school hasn’t started yet: The prep itself (supplies, clothes, new routines) may already be draining you before the first bell rings.
? Peace Reset: Anchor your mornings in prayer and Scripture before the day unfolds. Ten minutes of stillness with God can set the tone for peace.
2. Irritability Over Small Things
•For moms already in school mode: You may find yourself snapping at kids over homework or bedtime.
•For those preparing: The “to-do list pressure” may make you short-tempered with your family.
? Peace Reset: When irritation rises, pause. Step away, breathe deeply, and invite the Holy Spirit to fill you with patience.
•For those preparing: The “to-do list pressure” may make you short-tempered with your family.
? Peace Reset: When irritation rises, pause. Step away, breathe deeply, and invite the Holy Spirit to fill you with patience.
3. Brain Fog and Forgetfulness
•Already in school: You may be forgetting sign-up sheets, permission slips, or after-school pick-up times.
•Still preparing: You may feel overwhelmed trying to juggle supply lists and new routines.
? Peace Reset: Write things down. Use a family planner, whiteboard, or digital calendar so you’re not carrying everything in your head.
•Still preparing: You may feel overwhelmed trying to juggle supply lists and new routines.
? Peace Reset: Write things down. Use a family planner, whiteboard, or digital calendar so you’re not carrying everything in your head.
4. Feeling Overwhelmed by Small Tasks
Whether it’s packing lunches (daily struggle) or buying that last pair of shoes before school starts—small tasks can feel like big weights when you’re running low.
? Peace Reset: Simplify. Meal prep basics, delegate where possible, and remind yourself: done is better than perfect.
? Peace Reset: Simplify. Meal prep basics, delegate where possible, and remind yourself: done is better than perfect.
5. Loss of Joy
The excitement of the season may feel overshadowed by stress.
•If you’ve already started school: Joy may be buried under homework battles.
•If you’re preparing: Anxiety about “getting it all right” may rob your joy.
? Peace Reset: Reintroduce fun on purpose. Play worship music while you cook, plan a family movie night, or take a walk together.
•If you’ve already started school: Joy may be buried under homework battles.
•If you’re preparing: Anxiety about “getting it all right” may rob your joy.
? Peace Reset: Reintroduce fun on purpose. Play worship music while you cook, plan a family movie night, or take a walk together.
6. Neglecting Your Own Needs
Burnout often shows up in skipped meals, late nights, or ignoring your own health.
? Peace Reset: Prioritize rest, hydration, and movement. Stewardship of your body is part of stewarding your family well.
? Peace Reset: Prioritize rest, hydration, and movement. Stewardship of your body is part of stewarding your family well.
7. Spiritual Dryness
•If school has started: Your devotional time may have been the first thing squeezed out.
•If you’re preparing: You may be so focused on physical preparation that spiritual preparation feels neglected.
? Peace Reset: Start small. One verse a day. Whisper a breath prayer like: “Lord, renew my strength today.”
•If you’re preparing: You may be so focused on physical preparation that spiritual preparation feels neglected.
? Peace Reset: Start small. One verse a day. Whisper a breath prayer like: “Lord, renew my strength today.”
No matter where you are in the school calendar, you don’t have to walk into this season burned out. Recognize the signs early, reset your rhythms, and remember Jesus’ invitation:
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28
Mama, you are not alone. God has equipped you with grace for this season.
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28
Mama, you are not alone. God has equipped you with grace for this season.
Next Steps for You
•If your school year has already started → Use these peace resets as a mid-course correction. It’s not too late to re-center your family’s rhythm.
•If you’re preparing for school → Put these into practice now to prevent burnout before the first day.
? Don’t miss our Back-to-School Prayer Series and resources for moms at familiesarising.org/backtoschool
•If you’re preparing for school → Put these into practice now to prevent burnout before the first day.
? Don’t miss our Back-to-School Prayer Series and resources for moms at familiesarising.org/backtoschool
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